THE DOMINANT
Light the flame as an act of presence. Authority is grounded in awareness, care, and responsibility. Lead with steadiness, not ego.
THE SUBMISSIVE
Light this candle as a conscious offering. Surrender is chosen, powerful, and deeply intentional—never taken, always given.
THE SCENE
Light this candle to mark the threshold. The flame signals that this space is negotiated, intentional, and held with care.
THE COLLAR
Light this candle to honor a bond chosen, not imposed. Let the flame represent connection, devotion, and the agreement shared between you. This is belonging given with intention and trust.
THE KEY
Light the flame in recognition that power exists only through consent. Whether held or offered, the key is a symbol of trust, responsibility, and mutual understanding.
THE RESTRAINT
Light this candle to bring focus and stillness into the moment. What holds you is intention, not limitation—presence, not force.
AFTERCARE
Light this candle to return gently. Reconnect through closeness, calm, and care, allowing the body and mind to settle together.