The pictures do not do this collar justice. It is absolutely beautiful! We also added the o-ring so a dynamic charm can be added when we find the perfect one. The size and shape are perfect. I can feel the presence when I move and it’s just a constant reminder through the day of our relationship. I am so glad we found this site and placed our order. The lady who makes them is also very kind and responds to messages quickly. I will definitely recommend everyone we know who is looking to come here before the more known sites.