INFATUATION Submissive Collar, Sterling Silver

$ 149.00 USD

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Customer Reviews

Based on 6 reviews
Tim Sargeant

My princess loves her collar and loves having her daddy lick it on her! It is top notch quality and is beautiful and well made!

A minimalistic yet indispensable part of O/our dynamic

EN: (français plus bas)

Perhaps this is not the most satisfactory piece to build for an experienced artisan however, what a perfect fit for my girl and for U/us. I couldn't buy a more intricate piece because this girl dresses simple and needs something simple yet elegant that doesn't stick out from her clothes for being "too elaborate". Something as well made, as simple, yet, because it fits O/our style so well, something that became indispensable. Perfect for a 24/7 dynamic, no questions from parents, kids, coworkers or friends, nothing but compliments, even with the padlock. According to her, definitely the most comfortable piece she's worn. I cannot express how personal this collar became, thanks to a custom engraving and a tiny heart padlock. I wish we could include pictures in reviews, so you'd see the huge smile on her face when I put it on every morning. I wanted to take the time to write this review because for those young D/s couples asking themselves if they should spend the extra bucks, I say YES !


Ce n'est peut-être pas le bijoux le plus satisfaisant à confectionner pour une artisante expérimentée, mais quel bijoux absolument parfait! Ça va comme un gant à ma belle soumise, et à N/notre relation ! Je ne pouvais pas me permettre de lui faire porter un modèle plus élaboré, parcequ'elle s'habille très simplement, elle avait donc besoin d'un bijoux simple, pas trop voyant mais élégant, qui n'aurait pas été trop en décalage avec son style vestimentaire, un modèle plus complexe aurait fait "trop habillé". Un modèle d'une telle simplicité et pourtant, parfaitement adapté à N/nos besoins, à tel point qu'il est devenu un élément central à N/notre relation. Parfait pour une relation 24/7, pas de questions des parents, des collègues, des enfants ni même des amis, que des compliments, même avec le petit cadenas en argent qui est en fait très discret! D'après elle, c'est le bijoux bdsm le plus comfortable qu'elle ait eu. J'ai encore du mal à me rendre compte à quel point ce collier est devenu intime pour N/nous c'est fou, tout ça grâce à un travail de qualité, une petite gravure à l'intérieur comme dans une alliance et un petit cadenas, qui est clairement bdsm pour les yeux éduqués et attentifs ;). Je regrette ne pas pouvoir mettre de photos dans un commentaire, j'aimerais vous montrer son sourire jusqu'aux oreilles quand je lui mets chaque matin! Je voulais vraiment prendre la peine d'écrire un commentaire car à tous ces jeunes couples qui se demandent si ils devraient passer le pas et dépenser un tout petit plus, quite à manger des pâtes et du riz après pendant un mois, c'est un grand OUI !

Absolutely Stunning

It is so dainty and delicate looking, I feel so beautiful with it on. Thank you!

Amanda Norvish

INFATUATION Submissive Collar, Sterling Silver

Great quality

This collar is so cute and lightweight. It's very comfortable. Francesca is such a sweetheart and answered any questions I had! She is now mine and my fiance's go to!


The 'INFATUATION' collection of submissive jewelry is sweetly feminine. Delicate with a soft flowing design that's perfect for todays sub, yet has a medieval touch to it. This submissive locking collar is hand crafted in a romantic floral pattern of solid sterling silver. A beautiful symbol of commitment or wedding gift.

MEASURES : 4.29mm x 1.68mm (.169" x .066")

DAY WEAR and LOCKING: A unique hand-crafted day clasps allows the pieces to be worn as beautiful, traditional jewelry. The day clasps can be removed and the jewelry locked with small padlocks, transforming it from a traditional design into unique and stunning submissive jewelry

● One INFATUATION submissive locking day Collar
● 1 Day Clasp 
● 1 small padlock with keys
(Locks and day clasp may vary according to availability)

CHOOSE YOUR SIZE: This collar is made to lie at the center of the throat/neck like a choker. (Measure at center of throat, placing your fingertip under the tape measure, or add up to 1/2 inch for safety and comfort. The collar should be sized for locking. 

WE SPECIALIZED IN CUSTOM SIZING! We can make your jewelry in ANY SIZE. If you need a size not listed, please contact me for pricing at

MADE TO ORDER: Your jewelry will be created after you place your order. It could take 14-21 days to complete your order, but I work diligently to complete orders as quickly as possible, and most orders will be shipped much sooner. If you need the order sooner, email me BEFORE ordering and I may be able to confirm an earlier shipping date.

DISCREET PACKAGING: Your package will arrive in a plain white bubble mailer with only My Secret Heart as the return address. You will receive a shipping notification from us once we ship your order, and that will include your tracking number.

QUESTIONS about jewelry care, pricing, resizing, etc.?  Here's our FAQ PAGE. 

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